NgoJulayi 2020, uJohn Blosnich we-Center for LGBTQ+ Health Equity washicilela olunye ucwaningo "ngezingozi" zokwelapha ngokuvuselela. Ngemva kokuhlola abantu abangebona abashintshe ubulili abayi-1518, ithimba likaBlosnich laphetha ngokuthi abantu abaye bashintsha indlela yokucabanga ngocansi (i-SOCE) babike amazinga aphezulu okufuna ukuzibulala kanye nokuzama ukuzibulala kunalabo abangazange. Baphikisana ngokuthi i-SOCE imelela "ukucindezeleka okulimazayo okwandisa ukuzibulala kubantu abangebona abashadile." Ngakho-ke, imizamo yokushintsha indlela yokucabanga ayamukeleki futhi kufanele ithathelwe indawo "ngokunakekelwa okuqinisekisayo" okusiza abantu ukuthi balungise ukuthambekela kwabo kobungqingili. Ucwaningo lwabizwa ngokuthi "ubufakazi obunamandla kakhulu kuze kube manje bokuthi i-SOCE ibangela ukuzibulala."
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Ukuhlukahluka kwe-Sex drive kanye nenhlalakahle emadodeni
OLUNYE UCWANINGO LUFAKAZA UKUSEBENZA KANYE NEKUPHEPHA KWELAPHA LOKUBUYISA.
Nakuba osopolitiki abaqondiswa imibono ye-LGBT* beshaya imithetho evimbela usizo lwezokwelapha kubantu abakhangwa ubungqingili abangafunwa, kuye kwakhishwa olunye ucwaningo e-United States olubonisa ngokugculisayo ukuthi abantu abanjalo bangasizwa.
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IKocharyan G.S. - Ukwelashwa kwabesilisa nabesifazane kanye nokwelashwa kokuguqulwa: isifundo secala
Isifinyezo: Lesi sihloko siveza icala lomtholampilo lendoda " ethanda abantu abathandana nabobulili obubili " futhi sichaza ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa eyakwenza kusetshenziswa uhlelo olusikisela ucansi, olwabonakala lusebenza kahle kakhulu.
Okwamanje kuqhubeka imizamo engakaze ibonwe yokuvimbela ukusetshenziswa kokwelashwa kokuguqula (okuvuselelayo), okuhlose ukushintsha isifiso sobulili somuntu kusuka ekubeni ngumuntu ongqingili kuya ekubeni ngumuntu ongqingili. Kuyacwaswa futhi kumenyezelwe ukuthi akugcini nje ngokungasebenzi kodwa futhi kuyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngoDisemba 7, 2016, iPhalamende laseMalta ladlulisa ngazwi linye umthetho ovimbela ukusetshenziswa kokwelashwa kokuvuselelayo. Lo mthetho uhlinzeka ngenhlawulo noma isigwebo sasejele "sokushintsha, ukucindezela, noma ukubhubhisa ukuthambekela komuntu ngokobulili noma ubunikazi bobulili" [7]. Ngomhlaka-5 Juni 2020, i-Bundesrat (inhlangano emele amazwe aseJalimane) yagunyaza umthetho ovimbela lokhu kwelashwa. I -Deutsche Welle ibika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwayo kungajeziswa ngokuboshwa isikhathi esingafika onyakeni owodwa, kuyilapho ukukhangisa kanye nokulamula kungajeziswa ngenhlawulo engafika kuma-euro angu-30 [1]. E-United States, izifundazwe ezingu-18 kuphela, iPuerto Rico, kanye neWashington, D.C., zivimbele ukwelashwa kokuguqula izingane ezincane. Nokho, abantu abadala bangahlanganyela ngokuzithandela ekwelashweni kokuguqula kulo lonke izwe [ 9] . I-Instagram ne-Facebook bamemezele ukuthi bazovimba zonke izikhala kulezi zokuxhumana ezikhuthaza ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa [8].
Izimangalo zokuthi ukwelashwa ngokuguqula umzimba akugcini nje ngokungasebenzi kahle kodwa futhi kuhlala kubangela umonakalo omkhulu emzimbeni zingamanga. Izimpikiswano ezifanayo zingatholakala ezihlokweni zethu [ 3 ; 4 ; 6 ]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izifundo zethu eziningana ziveza ukusetshenziswa okuphumelelayo kokwelashwa ngokuguqula umzimba [ 2; 5 ].
Nali icala elivela enkambisweni yethu yomtholampilo, lapho ukwelashwa kokuguqula kuphumelele kakhulu ekulungiseni inkombandlela yesifiso sobulili kumuntu othanda abesilisa nabesifazane.
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UGerard Aardweg kwi-psychology yobungqingili nobushiqela obunobunono
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseDashi esidumile emhlabeni wonke uGerard van den Aardweg ugxile ekucwaningweni nasekuphathweni kobungqingili isikhathi esiningi somsebenzi wakhe ovelele weminyaka engama-50. Njengelungu leKomidi Lokweluleka Lesayensi le-National Association for the Research and Treatment of Homosexuality (NARTH) kanye nombhali wezincwadi nezihloko zesayensi, okwamanje ungomunye wochwepheshe abambalwa abanesibindi sokudalula iqiniso elingakhululekile lalesi sihloko ngombono oyiqiniso kuphela, ngokusekelwe kudatha eqondile engangcoliswanga ukucwasa ngokwemibono. Ngezansi kunesiqephu esivela ephepheni lakhe, "Ukwenziwa 'Kokujwayelekile' Kobungqingili kanye neHumanae Vitae ," elanikezwa engqungqutheleni ka-2018 yePontifical Academy for Human Life and the Family .
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Ngingakwazi ukushintsha indlela yami yokuya ocansini?
Okuningi kwalokhu okulandelayo kushicilelwe embikweni wocwaningo othi "I-Rhetoric of the Homosexual Movement in Light of Scientific Facts ." doi: 10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9 , ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9
Ukutholwa Okusemqoka
(1) Kunesisekelo esikhulu sobufakazi obukhombisa ukuthi ungumuntu onobungqingili noma onqabile.
(2) Isimo esibalulekile sokusebenza kahle kokwelashwa okuphindayo ukubamba iqhaza kwesiguli nolwazi nesifiso sokushintsha.
(3) Ezimweni eziningi, ukukhanga kobungqingili, okungenzeka ngesikhathi sokuthomba, kunyamalala ngaphandle komkhondo lapho umuntu esekhulile.
Funda kabanzi »Ubutabane buyalapheka. Ukuchayeka ku-psychotherapy yobungqingili kuhlotshaniswa nokuncipha okukhulu kokukhangwa abobulili obufanayo (kusuka ku-5,7 kuye ku-4,1 esikalini se-Kinsey), ukuhlonza (kusuka ku-4,8 kuye ku-3,6) kanye nomsebenzi wocansi. Ngaphezu kwama-42,7% wabahlanganyeli be-SOCE bathole ukuthethelelwa okungenani ingxenye yobulili obufanayo obungadingeki; ukuxolelwa okuphelele kwafinyelelwa ku-14% ngesifiso socansi nokuhlonza futhi ku-26% yokuziphatha ngokocansi [*]. Lokhu kwanele ukuze ube nokukhangwa abantu bobulili obuhlukile futhi udale ubudlelwano obujwayelekile.
NgoJulayi 2020, u-John Blosnich ovela ku-Center for Health Equity yabantu be-LGBT*Q+ washicilela olunye ucwaningo “ngezingozi” zokwelashwa kokulungisa. Ocwaningweni olwenziwe ku-1518 "abancane abangashintshi ubulili," ithimba lika-Blosnich liphethe ngokuthi abantu abake babhekana nomzamo wokushintsha ubulili (SOCE) babike ukwanda okukhulu kwemicabango yokuzibulala kanye nemizamo yokuzibulala kunalabo abangazange.
Kodwa-ke, lapho elinye iqembu lososayensi, eliholwa nguChristopher Rosick, lihlaziya idatha evela "kusampula emele kakhulu yabantu abancane abancane bezocansi kuze kube manje," imiphumela ephikisana ne-polar yembulwa. Ukuqhathaniswa kwenani labantu ababehlulekile ukwelashwa kwe-SOCE kanye nalabo ababehlulekile akuvezanga umehluko emazingeni okulimala kwengqondo noma kwezenhlalo—izibalo zamaqembu amabili zazingabonakali kunoma yisiphi isilinganiso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-SOCE, ngokuphambene, itholakale inciphisa kakhulu ukuzibulala: abantu abadala abathola ukwelashwa kwe-SOCE ngemva kwemicabango noma izinhlelo zokuzibulala babengaphansi kwe-17 izikhathi ze-25 zokuzama ukuzibulala [**].
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* I-Sullins DP, i-Rosik CH, i-Santero P. Ukusebenza kahle kanye nengozi yemizamo yokuguqula isimo socansi: ukuhlaziywa okuphindaphindiwe kwamadoda angu-125 adaluliwe //F1000Research. - 2021. - T. 10.
** I-Sullins DP Ukungabibikho Kokulimala Kokuziphatha Kulandela Imizamo Engasebenzi Yokushintshwa Kwezimo Zocansi: Ucwaningo Olubukeziwe Lwabantu Abadala Abancane Bezocansi base-United States, 2016–2018 // Frontiers in Psychology. - 2022. - T. 13.
UJan Goland ekwelashweni kongqingili (inhlolokhono yevidiyo ekhethekile)
Isibikezelo
Ngasekuqaleni kwe-1990, izishoshovu ezalungqingili e-US zazama ukwazisa ongqingili njengeqembu "elivikelwe" elikhethekile eNkantolo Ephakeme. Ukuze iqembu elithile labantu lithole isimo esivikelekile, kufanele kube okwangempela, okungelona iqiniso futhi kuhlale njalo (okungewona umphakathi wezitabane). Kulokhu, izishoshovu zezitabane zethule izinganekwane ezahlukahlukene ezazithathwa kalula futhi zisatshalaliswa ngabezindaba zenkululeko. Ngokuphikisana namaqiniso esayensi kanye nomqondo ojwayelekile, bekuthiwa okungenani umuntu oyedwa kwabayishumi ubungqingili, nokuthi ukuheha ebulilini bomuntu kuwuphawu lokuzalwa, njengomjaho, okubangelwa uhlobo olukhethekile futhi olungaguquki njengombala wesikhumba. Emzameni wokuzilinganisa ngokwabantu abambalwa abacindezelwe ngokobuhlanga, izishoshovu zaze zaqamba namazwi anjengokuthi "amancane" kanye "nabantu abayizitabane".
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Ukwelashwa kobungqingili
Udokotela ovelele wezifo zengqondo, i-psychoanalyst kanye ne-MD, u-Edmund Bergler wabhala izincwadi ze-25 ezikhuluma nge-psychology kanye ne-273 kumajenali aphambili ochwepheshe. Izincwadi zakhe zidingida izihloko ezinjengokukhula kwengane, i-neurosis, izingqinamba zokuphila kwasebusuku, ubunzima bomshado, ukugembula, ukuzilimaza kanye nobungqingili. UBerggler wayeqashelwa kufanele njengesazi sesikhathi sakhe maqondana nobungqingili. Okulandelayo izingcaphuno ezivela emsebenzini wakhe.
Izincwadi zakamuva nemikhiqizo yakamuva izamile ukuveza ubungqingili njengezisulu ezingeneme ezifanelwe ukuzwelwa. Ukudluliswa kwezinduna ze-lacrimal akunangqondo: ongqingili bangahlala baphendukela osizweni lwezengqondo futhi belaphe uma bafuna. Kepha ukungazi komphakathi kusabalale kakhulu ngalolu daba, futhi ukukhohliswa kwabantu abathandana nabobungqingili ngombono womphakathi ngabo kusebenza kakhulu kangangokuba nabantu abahlakaniphe impela abazalwanga izolo bazitholela izithiyo zabo.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakamuva kwengqondo nokucwaninga kufakazele ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuthi isiphetho okuthiwa singeke siguqulwe sokobungqingili (kwesinye isikhathi size sibangelwe yizimo ezingezona nezegciwane kanye nama-hormonal) empeleni siyisigaba esishintshiwe sokwelashwa kwe-neurosis. I-pessimism yokwelapha yesikhathi esedlule inyamalala kancane kancane: namuhla i-psychotherapyic isiqondisi se-psychodynamic ingalapha ubungqingili.
Ngokwelapha, ngiqonde:
I-1. ukungabi nandaba ngokuphelele nobulili babo;
I-2. injabulo ejwayelekile yezocansi;
I-3. ushintsho lwesimilo.