NgoJulayi ka-2020, uJohn Blosnich we-LGBTQ+ Health Equity Centre wapapasha enye kufunda malunga "nengozi" yonyango lokubuyisela. Kuphando lwamalungu angama-1518 "abantu abancinci bezesondo", iqela likaBlosnich ligqibe kwelokuba abantu abaye bazama ukutshintshwa ngokwesondo (emva koku kubhekiselwa kubo njengeSOCE *) baxela ukuxhaphaka okuphezulu kweengcinga zokuzibulala kunye nokuzama ukuzibulala kunabo Andi. Kuye kwaxoxwa ukuba i-SOCE "yi-stressor eyingozi eyenza ukuzibulala kwabancinci ngokwesondo". Ngoko ke, iinzame zokutshintsha i-orientation azamkelekanga kwaye kufuneka zithatyathelwe indawo yi-"affirmative withdrawal" eya kuthi imvisisanise umntu notyekelo lwakhe lobufanasini. Olu phononongo lubizwa ngokuba "obona bungqina bubambekayo bokuba iSOCE ibangela ukuzibulala".
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IKocharyan G.S. -Ulwabelana ngesondo kunye nonyango lokuguqula: isifundo secala
Isichazi. Uqwalaselo lwezonyango lunikezelwa apho sithetha ngalo “isini” endodeni, kwaye ikwachaza unyango loguqulo awalufumanayo esebenzisa inkqubo yehypnosuggestive, eyathi yasebenza kakhulu.
Okwangoku, kwenziwa iinzame ezingazange zibonwe ngaphambili zokuthintela ukusetyenziswa kotshintsho (unyango), olujolise ekutshintsheni inkanuko yesini kunye nesini. Uyabekwa ibala kwaye akabhengezwanga njengongenamsebenzi, kodwa eyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womntu. Ke, nge-7 kaDisemba ngo-2016 ipalamente yaseMalta ngamxhelomnye bapasisa umthetho othintela ukusetyenziswa kwonyango oluphindaphindayo. Ngokutshintsha, ukucinezela kunye nokutshabalalisa inkcubeko yomntu okanye isini sakhe, "lo mthetho ubonelela ngesigwebo okanye isigwebo sasentolongweni. [7] IBundesrat (emele ilizwe laseJamani) nge-5 kaJuni 2020 yamkele umthetho othintela olu nyango. Deutsche Welle iingxelo zokuba ukuphunyezwa kwayo kungohlwaywa ngokuvalelwa iminyaka elishumi, kunye nentengiso kunye nokulamla - isohlwayo esifikelela kwi-30 lamawaka eeros [1]. E-US, kuphela li-18, i-Puerto Rico kunye ne-Washington DC, ezithintele unyango lokuguqula abantwana.Abantu abadala banokuvolontiya kunyango lokuguqula kwilizwe lonke [9]... I-Instagram kunye noFacebook babhengeze ukuvalwa kwazo zonke izithuba kwezi nethiwekhi zentlalo ezikhuthaza unyango lokuguqula [8].
Iingxelo zokuba unyango lotshintsho alusebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa kuzo zonke iimeko lubangela ingozi enkulu emzimbeni bubuxoki. Ingxoxo ehambelana noko inokufumaneka kumanqaku ethu [3; 4; 6]. Ngaphaya koko, uninzi lwemisebenzi yethu lubonise ukusetyenziswa okusebenzayo konyango lokuguqula [2; Xnumx].
Nali ityala elivela kwinkqubo yethu yeklinikhi, apho unyango lwenguquko lube yimpumelelo enkulu ekulungiseni ulwalathiso lomnqweno wesini kwindoda ekhetha abantu abathandanayo.
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UGerard Aardweg kwi-psychology yesini nobungqingili
Isazi ngengqondo esidumileyo seDutch uGerard van den Aardweg ukhethe ngokukodwa esifundweni kunye nonyango lobufanasini uninzi lomsebenzi wakhe obalulekileyo we-50. Ilungu leKomiti yeeNgcebiso ngezeNzululwazi yoMbutho weSizwe woFundo kunye nonyango lobuNtu (i-NARTH), umbhali weencwadi kunye namanqaku ezenzululwazi, namhlanje ungomnye weengcali ezimbalwa ezinesibindi sokuchaza inyani engachanekanga yesi sihloko kuphela kwizikhundla eziyinyani, ngokusekwe kwinjongo, hayi ekugqwethekeni kwengqondo. Idatha ekhethiweyo Apha ngezantsi kukho ingxelo evela kwingxelo yakhe "Ukuqheleka" koBungqingili kunye noHumanae Vitae "funda ngaphandle kwinkomfa yoopopu I-Academy yoBomi baBantu kunye noSapho kunyaka 2018.
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Unyango lobufanasini ngaphambi kwexesha lokuchaneka kwezopolitiko
Iimeko ezininzi zonyango oluyimpumelelo lolungiso lobufanasini kunye nomtsalane zichazwe banzi kuncwadi lobuchwephesha. Xela Umbutho weSizwe woFundo kunye noNyango loBungqingili ubonelela ngesishwankathelo sobungqina obunamandla, iingxelo zekliniki kunye nophando ukusuka ngasekupheleni kwenkulungwane ye-19 ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, nto leyo ebonisa ubungqina bokuba amadoda kunye nabasetyhini abanomdla banokwenza utshintsho ukusuka kubufanasini ukuya kwisini esinye. Ngaphambi kwexesha lokuchaneka kwezopolitiko, yayiyinyani eyaziwayo yesayensi, ekhululekileyo Ubhale umshicileli ophakathi. Nditsho noMbutho waseAmerican Psychiatric Association, ngaphandle kobufanasini bobufanano kuluhlu lweengxaki zengqondo kwi1974, qaphele, oko Iindlela zonyango zanamhlanje zivumela inxenye ebalulekileyo yabantu abathandana nabafazi abafuna ukutshintsha indlela abathanda ngayo ukwenza njalo..
Uguqulelo olulandelayo amanqaku isuka kwiNew York Times ye1971.
UGarnik Kocharyan kunyango olubuyisayo kubantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabo
I-Kocharyan Garnik Surenovich, Ugqirha weeNzululwazi zezoNyango, uNjingalwazi weSebe lezeSini ngezeSayensi yezeSondo, iNzululwazi yezoNyango, ezoNyango kunye nezoNyango zeZengqondo kwiKharkov Medical Academy. uhambise incwadi ethi "Shame and Loss of Attachment. Ukusetyenziswa konyango oluphindaphindwayo xa usenza ”. Umbhali yenye yeengcali ezigunyazisiweyo nezaziwayo kwihlabathi kwicandelo lonyango oluphindaphindayo, umseki woMbutho weSizwe woFundo kunye nokunyanga ubuNtu (NARTH) -Gqirha Joseph Nicolosi. Le ncwadi yapapashwa okokuqala e-United States ngo-2009 phantsi kwesihloko esithi "Shame and Attachment Loss: The Practical Work of Reparative Therapy".
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Ukunyanga kwakhona kwakhona: imibuzo kunye neempendulo
Ngaba bonke abantu abathandana besini esifanayo?
Igama elithi "Gay" sisazisi umntu Ukukhetha zam. Ayingabo bonke abantu abathandana besini esinye abachaza "njengezitabane." Abantu abangazichazanga njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuba bangathandani ngokwesini esinye kwaye bafuna uncedo ekuchongeni izizathu ezizezona zibangela ukuba bangathandani. Ngexesha lonyango, abacebisi kunye noochwephesha bezengqondo basebenzisa iindlela zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo ukunceda abathengi ukuba baveze izizathu zokuba nomtsalane kubantu besini esinye kwaye babancede ekusombululeni izizathu ezibakhokelela kwiimvakalelo zobufanasini. Aba bantu, abayinxalenye yoluntu lwethu, bazabalazela ukukhusela ilungelo labo lokufumana uncedo nenkxaso yokuphelisa umtsalane wesini esifanayo, ukuba batshintshe indlela abathanda ngayo kunye / okanye bagcine ukungatshati. Oku kufezekiswa ngokweenkqubo zokubandakanya abantu ngokwesini, kubandakanya nengcebiso kunye nonyango lokuthandana kwabantu abathandanayo, okwaziwa ngokuba "kukungenelela koSondo kwezeSondo" (i-SOCE) okanye Unyango kwakhona.
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Iidayari yomntu owayetshatile
Mfundi othandekayo, igama lam nguJake. Ndingumntu olifanasini kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini ukusuka eNgilane. Le dayari yenzelwe abo bachasayo umbono wokutshintsha imeko yesini. Iingcali ziye zafunda ngesondo amashumi eminyaka kwaye ziye zagqiba kwelokuba isini siyahluka kubantu abaninzi. Ubungqina bucebisa ukuba iimvakalelo zesini zinokutshintsha ebomini. Inyaniso yokuba abantu abaninzi bayayitshintsha indlela abajonga ngayo ngokwesini yinyani eqinisekisiweyo. Ndingomnye waba bantu.
Andisaziva nditsala amadoda; amantombazana ngoku anomdla ngakumbi kum. Nje ukuba ndingacingi njalo, kodwa ngoku ndiyacinga.
Kanye, ukulala kubusuku obunesithukuthezi, ndizicingele ngenye indoda ngenye indlela, ngoku ndinokuzithelekelela ndedwa nentombazana yesetyhini.
Abanye abonwabanga yile meko yemicimbi. Baqinisekile ngesondo labo kangangokuba abanakwamkela ukuba kukho abo bangasenazo kwaphela iimvakalelo zabo. Banoyolo ngakumbi xa abantu bejika baba ngamafanasini, kodwa abathandi xa kwenzeke into eyahlukileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abafana nam babizwa ngokuba ngabasebenzi benzondo, kwaye kungenxa yokuba andifuni ukuba neentlobano zesini namadoda!
Ngaba bakhetha mna ukuba bathi cwaka ngokutshintsha ubufanasini, ndihlale kubuxoki kwaye ndikukhanyele kwenzeka ntoni? Ewe, kuyabonakala! Bafuna ukundithulisa, bandiphange ilungelo lokuphila ngendlela endiyonyulayo, kwaye bandinyanzele ukuba ndikhokelele indlela yokuphila abazibona ifanelekile!
Andiyekanga nje ukuba ngungqingili, kodwa ndiziva ndonwabile. Mna ngokwam ndiza kulawula ubomi bam ngendlela endifuna ngayo, hayi indlela abandixelela ngayo. Ndigqibe kwelokuba nditshintshe isini sam kwaye ndiyenzile.
Ukucaphula iintshutshiso zesini:
Ndilapha!
Andisemgceni kwakhona!
Qhela kuyo!
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