NgoJulayi 2020, uJohn Blosnich we-Center for LGBTQ+ Health Equity washicilela olunye ucwaningo "ngezingozi" zokwelapha ngokuvuselela. Ngemva kokuhlola abantu abangebona abashintshe ubulili abayi-1518, ithimba likaBlosnich laphetha ngokuthi abantu abaye bashintsha indlela yokucabanga ngocansi (i-SOCE) babike amazinga aphezulu okufuna ukuzibulala kanye nokuzama ukuzibulala kunalabo abangazange. Baphikisana ngokuthi i-SOCE imelela "ukucindezeleka okulimazayo okwandisa ukuzibulala kubantu abangebona abashadile." Ngakho-ke, imizamo yokushintsha indlela yokucabanga ayamukeleki futhi kufanele ithathelwe indawo "ngokunakekelwa okuqinisekisayo" okusiza abantu ukuthi balungise ukuthambekela kwabo kobungqingili. Ucwaningo lwabizwa ngokuthi "ubufakazi obunamandla kakhulu kuze kube manje bokuthi i-SOCE ibangela ukuzibulala."
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Ukuhlukahluka kwe-Sex drive kanye nenhlalakahle emadodeni
OLUNYE UCWANINGO LUFAKAZA UKUSEBENZA KANYE NEKUPHEPHA KWELAPHA LOKUBUYISA.
Nakuba osopolitiki abaqondiswa imibono ye-LGBT* beshaya imithetho evimbela usizo lwezokwelapha kubantu abakhangwa ubungqingili abangafunwa, kuye kwakhishwa olunye ucwaningo e-United States olubonisa ngokugculisayo ukuthi abantu abanjalo bangasizwa.
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Isifinyezo: Lesi sihloko siveza icala lomtholampilo lendoda " ethanda abantu abathandana nabobulili obubili " futhi sichaza ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa eyakwenza kusetshenziswa uhlelo olusikisela ucansi, olwabonakala lusebenza kahle kakhulu.
Okwamanje kuqhubeka imizamo engakaze ibonwe yokuvimbela ukusetshenziswa kokwelashwa kokuguqula (okuvuselelayo), okuhlose ukushintsha isifiso sobulili somuntu kusuka ekubeni ngumuntu ongqingili kuya ekubeni ngumuntu ongqingili. Kuyacwaswa futhi kumenyezelwe ukuthi akugcini nje ngokungasebenzi kodwa futhi kuyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni womuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngoDisemba 7, 2016, iPhalamende laseMalta ladlulisa ngazwi linye umthetho ovimbela ukusetshenziswa kokwelashwa kokuvuselelayo. Lo mthetho uhlinzeka ngenhlawulo noma isigwebo sasejele "sokushintsha, ukucindezela, noma ukubhubhisa ukuthambekela komuntu ngokobulili noma ubunikazi bobulili" [7]. Ngomhlaka-5 Juni 2020, i-Bundesrat (inhlangano emele amazwe aseJalimane) yagunyaza umthetho ovimbela lokhu kwelashwa. I -Deutsche Welle ibika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwayo kungajeziswa ngokuboshwa isikhathi esingafika onyakeni owodwa, kuyilapho ukukhangisa kanye nokulamula kungajeziswa ngenhlawulo engafika kuma-euro angu-30 [1]. E-United States, izifundazwe ezingu-18 kuphela, iPuerto Rico, kanye neWashington, D.C., zivimbele ukwelashwa kokuguqula izingane ezincane. Nokho, abantu abadala bangahlanganyela ngokuzithandela ekwelashweni kokuguqula kulo lonke izwe [ 9] . I-Instagram ne-Facebook bamemezele ukuthi bazovimba zonke izikhala kulezi zokuxhumana ezikhuthaza ukwelashwa kokuguqulwa [8].
Izimangalo zokuthi ukwelashwa ngokuguqula umzimba akugcini nje ngokungasebenzi kahle kodwa futhi kuhlala kubangela umonakalo omkhulu emzimbeni zingamanga. Izimpikiswano ezifanayo zingatholakala ezihlokweni zethu [ 3 ; 4 ; 6 ]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izifundo zethu eziningana ziveza ukusetshenziswa okuphumelelayo kokwelashwa ngokuguqula umzimba [ 2; 5 ].
Nali icala elivela enkambisweni yethu yomtholampilo, lapho ukwelashwa kokuguqula kuphumelele kakhulu ekulungiseni inkombandlela yesifiso sobulili kumuntu othanda abesilisa nabesifazane.
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Okuningi kwalokhu okulandelayo kushicilelwe embikweni wocwaningo othi "I-Rhetoric of the Homosexual Movement in Light of Scientific Facts ." doi: 10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9 , ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9
Ukutholwa Okusemqoka
(1) Kunesisekelo esikhulu sobufakazi obukhombisa ukuthi ungumuntu onobungqingili noma onqabile.
(2) Isimo esibalulekile sokusebenza kahle kokwelashwa okuphindayo ukubamba iqhaza kwesiguli nolwazi nesifiso sokushintsha.
(3) Ezimweni eziningi, ukukhanga kobungqingili, okungenzeka ngesikhathi sokuthomba, kunyamalala ngaphandle komkhondo lapho umuntu esekhulile.
Funda kabanzi »Ubutabane buyalapheka. Ukuchayeka ku-psychotherapy yobungqingili kuhlotshaniswa nokuncipha okukhulu kokukhangwa abobulili obufanayo (kusuka ku-5,7 kuye ku-4,1 esikalini se-Kinsey), ukuhlonza (kusuka ku-4,8 kuye ku-3,6) kanye nomsebenzi wocansi. Ngaphezu kwama-42,7% wabahlanganyeli be-SOCE bathole ukuthethelelwa okungenani ingxenye yobulili obufanayo obungadingeki; ukuxolelwa okuphelele kwafinyelelwa ku-14% ngesifiso socansi nokuhlonza futhi ku-26% yokuziphatha ngokocansi [*]. Lokhu kwanele ukuze ube nokukhangwa abantu bobulili obuhlukile futhi udale ubudlelwano obujwayelekile.
NgoJulayi 2020, u-John Blosnich ovela ku-Center for Health Equity yabantu be-LGBT*Q+ washicilela olunye ucwaningo “ngezingozi” zokwelashwa kokulungisa. Ocwaningweni olwenziwe ku-1518 "abancane abangashintshi ubulili," ithimba lika-Blosnich liphethe ngokuthi abantu abake babhekana nomzamo wokushintsha ubulili (SOCE) babike ukwanda okukhulu kwemicabango yokuzibulala kanye nemizamo yokuzibulala kunalabo abangazange.
Kodwa-ke, lapho elinye iqembu lososayensi, eliholwa nguChristopher Rosick, lihlaziya idatha evela "kusampula emele kakhulu yabantu abancane abancane bezocansi kuze kube manje," imiphumela ephikisana ne-polar yembulwa. Ukuqhathaniswa kwenani labantu ababehlulekile ukwelashwa kwe-SOCE kanye nalabo ababehlulekile akuvezanga umehluko emazingeni okulimala kwengqondo noma kwezenhlalo—izibalo zamaqembu amabili zazingabonakali kunoma yisiphi isilinganiso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-SOCE, ngokuphambene, itholakale inciphisa kakhulu ukuzibulala: abantu abadala abathola ukwelashwa kwe-SOCE ngemva kwemicabango noma izinhlelo zokuzibulala babengaphansi kwe-17 izikhathi ze-25 zokuzama ukuzibulala [**].
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* I-Sullins DP, i-Rosik CH, i-Santero P. Ukusebenza kahle kanye nengozi yemizamo yokuguqula isimo socansi: ukuhlaziywa okuphindaphindiwe kwamadoda angu-125 adaluliwe //F1000Research. - 2021. - T. 10.
** I-Sullins DP Ukungabibikho Kokulimala Kokuziphatha Kulandela Imizamo Engasebenzi Yokushintshwa Kwezimo Zocansi: Ucwaningo Olubukeziwe Lwabantu Abadala Abancane Bezocansi base-United States, 2016–2018 // Frontiers in Psychology. - 2022. - T. 13.
UJan Goland ekwelashweni kongqingili (inhlolokhono yevidiyo ekhethekile)
Isibikezelo
Ngasekuqaleni kwe-1990, izishoshovu ezalungqingili e-US zazama ukwazisa ongqingili njengeqembu "elivikelwe" elikhethekile eNkantolo Ephakeme. Ukuze iqembu elithile labantu lithole isimo esivikelekile, kufanele kube okwangempela, okungelona iqiniso futhi kuhlale njalo (okungewona umphakathi wezitabane). Kulokhu, izishoshovu zezitabane zethule izinganekwane ezahlukahlukene ezazithathwa kalula futhi zisatshalaliswa ngabezindaba zenkululeko. Ngokuphikisana namaqiniso esayensi kanye nomqondo ojwayelekile, bekuthiwa okungenani umuntu oyedwa kwabayishumi ubungqingili, nokuthi ukuheha ebulilini bomuntu kuwuphawu lokuzalwa, njengomjaho, okubangelwa uhlobo olukhethekile futhi olungaguquki njengombala wesikhumba. Emzameni wokuzilinganisa ngokwabantu abambalwa abacindezelwe ngokobuhlanga, izishoshovu zaze zaqamba namazwi anjengokuthi "amancane" kanye "nabantu abayizitabane".
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Amacala amaningi okuphumelela kokulungiswa okwelashwa kokuziphatha kobungqingili nokuheha kuchazwa ngokuningiliziwe ezincwadini zobungcweti. Bika I-National Association for the Study and Therapy ofungqingili iveza ukubukelwa kobufakazi obuqandayo, imibiko yomtholampilo kanye nocwaningo kusukela ngasekupheleni kwekhulu le-19 kuze kube manje, okufakazela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane abanentshisekelo bangalwenza lolu shintsho kusuka ebungqingili kuya kobungqingili. Ngaphambi kwenkathi yokunemba kwezombusazwe, kwakuyiqiniso elaziwayo lesayensi, okuyinto ngokukhululeka Ubhale umshini omkhulu wezindaba. Ngisho ne-American Psychiatric Association, ngaphandle kobungqingili be-syntonic kuhlu lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo e-1974, kuphawuliwe, lokho "Izindlela zokwelapha zesimanje zivumela ingxenye enkulu yabongqingili abafuna ukuguqula isimo sabo ukwenza kanjalo".
Okulandelayo ukuhumusha izindatshana kusuka eNew York Times ye1971.
Ukwelashwa kabusha: imibuzo nezimpendulo
Bonke ongqingili?
"U-Gay" ubuwena umuntu azikhethela bona. Akubona bonke abantu abakhangwa abantu bobulili obufanayo abazibiza ngokuthi "abangqingili." Abantu abangazibonakalisi njengabantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo bakholelwa ukuthi empeleni bangabantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo futhi bafuna usizo lokuthola izizathu ezithile zokuthi kungani bethola ukukhangwa kwabantu bobulili obufanayo okungafunwa. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, abeluleki kanye nodokotela bezengqondo basiza amakhasimende ngokuziphatha ukuthi athole izimbangela zokukhangwa kwabo kwabantu bobulili obufanayo futhi babasize ngozwelo ukubhekana nezici eziholela emizweni yabantu bobulili obufanayo. Laba bantu, abayingxenye ebalulekile yomphakathi wethu, balwela ukuvikela ilungelo labo lokuthola usizo nokusekelwa ukuze banqobe ukukhangwa kwabantu bobulili obufanayo okungafunwa, bashintshe ukuthambekela kwabo ngokocansi, kanye/noma balondoloze ukungashadi. Lokhu kufezwa ngezinhlelo zokuqinisekisa ubulili, okuhlanganisa ukwelulekwa kanye nokwelashwa kokuqinisekisa ubulili obufanayo, okwaziwa nangokuthi "ukungenelela kokushintsha ukuthambekela kobulili" (SOCE) noma ukwelashwa kokushintsha ukuthambekela kobulili.
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