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IKocharyan G.S. - Ukwelashwa kwabesilisa nabesifazane kanye nokwelashwa kokuguqulwa: isifundo secala

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Isichasiselo. Ukuhlolwa komtholampilo kunikezwa lapho sikhuluma ngakho “ubungqingili” endodeni, futhi ichaza indlela yokwelapha yokuguqula ayinikezwe kusetshenziswa uhlelo lwe-hypnosuggestive, olugcine lusebenza kahle kakhulu.

Njengamanje, kwenziwa imizamo engakaze ibonwe yokunqanda ukusetshenziswa kwendlela yokwelashwa (yokuguqula), ehlose ukuguqula isimo sobungqingili sesifiso sobulili sibe ngabobulili obuhlukile. Uyakhishwa inyumbazane futhi kumenyezelwa ukuthi akasebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi uyingozi enkulu emzimbeni womuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngoDisemba 7, 2016 iphalamende laseMalta ngazwilinye baphasisa umthetho owenqabela ukusetshenziswa kwelashwa lokulungisa. Ukuze "kuguqulwe, kucindezelwe futhi kuqedwe inkanuko yomuntu yezocansi noma ubunikazi bobulili," lo mthetho uhlinzekela inhlawulo noma isigwebo sasejele. [7] IBundesrat (emele izifundazwe zaseJalimane) ngoJuni 5, 2020 yavuma umthetho ovimbela lokhu kwelashwa. Deutsche Welle ibika ukuthi ukuziphatha kwayo kungajeziswa ngokuboshwa isikhathi esingangonyaka, nokukhangisa nokulamula - inhlawulo efinyelela kuma-euro ayizinkulungwane ezingama-30 [1]. E-US, izifundazwe eziyi-18 kuphela, iPuerto Rico neWashington DC, ezivimbele ukwelashwa kokuguqula izingane. Abantu abadala bangazinikela ekwelashweni kwezinguquko ezweni lonke [9]... I-Instagram neFacebook zimemezele ukuvinjelwa kwakho konke okuthunyelwe kulezi zinkundla zokuxhumana ezikhuthaza ukwelashwa kokuguqula [8].

Izimangalo zokuthi ukwelashwa kokuguqula akusebenzi nje kuphela, kepha kuzo zonke izimo zibangela ukulimala okukhulu emzimbeni zingamanga. Ukuphikisana okuhambisanayo kungatholakala kuzindatshana zethu [3; 4; 6]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imisebenzi yethu eminingi iveze ukusetshenziswa ngempumelelo kokwelashwa kokuguqulwa [I-2; I-5].

Nali icala elivela enkambisweni yethu yomtholampilo, lapho ukwelashwa kokuguqula kuphumelele kakhulu ekulungiseni inkombandlela yesifiso sobulili kumuntu othanda abesilisa nabesifazane.

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Ukwelashwa kabusha: imibuzo nezimpendulo

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Bonke ongqingili?

Igama elithi "Gay" lingumuntu ukukhetha okwami. Akubona bonke abantu abathandana nobungqingili abakhomba “njengobungqingili.” Abantu abangazivezi njengezitabane bakholelwa ukuthi empeleni bayathandana futhi bafuna usizo ekuboneni izizathu ezithile zokuthi kungani bathola ukukhangwa okungathandeki kobulili obuhlukile. Ngesikhathi sokwelashwa, abeluleki kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zisebenzisa izindlela zokuziphatha ukusiza amaklayenti ukuthola izizathu zokuhehwa ngabobulili obuhlukile futhi bawasize ngesineke ukuxazulula izimbangela eziholela emizweni yobungqingili. Lababantu, abayingxenye yomphakathi wethu obalulekile, balwela ukuvikela ilungelo labo lokuthola usizo nokuxhaswa ukuqeda ukuheha okungafunwa ngabobulili obufanayo, bashintshe indlela yabo yokuya ocansini kanye / noma balondoloze ukungashadi. Lokhu kutholakala ngezinhlelo ezibandakanya ubulili, okubandakanya ukwelulekwa kanye nokwelashwa kobungqingili, okwaziwa nangokuthi “I-Sex Oriental Intervention” (i-SOCE) noma i-Reoriorial Therapy.

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