NgoJulayi 2020, uJohn Blosnich we-LGBTQ+ Health Equality Center washicilela enye ukutadisha mayelana "nengozi" yokwelashwa kokulungisa. Ocwaningweni lwamalungu ayi-1518 "abantu abancane abangashintshi ubulili", ithimba lika-Blosnich liphethe ngokuthi abantu abake bazama ukushintsha ukukhetha okushiwo ubulili (okubizwa kamuva ngokuthi yi-SOCE*) babika ukwanda okuphezulu kwemicabango yokuzibulala kanye nemizamo yokuzibulala kunalabo abazama ukuzibulala. anginayo. Kuye kwaphikiswana ngokuthi i-SOCE "iyisicindezelo esiyingozi esikhulisa ukuzibulala kwabantu abambalwa ngokocansi". Ngakho-ke, imizamo yokushintsha indlela umuntu abheka ngayo izinto ayamukelekile futhi kufanele kuthathelwe indawo "ukuhoxa okuqinisekisiwe" okuzobuyisana nomuntu nokuthambekela kwakhe kobungqingili. Lolu cwaningo lubizwa “ngobufakazi obuqand’ ikhanda bokuthi iSOCE idala ukuzibulala”.
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Ukuhlukahluka kwe-Sex drive kanye nenhlalakahle emadodeni
OLUNYE UCWANINGO LUFAKAZA UKUSEBENZA KANYE NEKUPHEPHA KWELAPHA LOKUBUYISA.
Nakuba osopolitiki abaholwa yi-LGBT bephasisa imithetho yokuvimbela usizo lokwelapha kubantu abakhangwa ubungqingili abangafunwa, kuphume olunye ucwaningo e-US olukhombisa ngokugculisayo ukuthi abantu abanjalo bangasizwa.
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IKocharyan G.S. - Ukwelashwa kwabesilisa nabesifazane kanye nokwelashwa kokuguqulwa: isifundo secala
Isichasiselo. Ukuhlolwa komtholampilo kunikezwa lapho sikhuluma ngakho “ubungqingili” endodeni, futhi ichaza indlela yokwelapha yokuguqula ayinikezwe kusetshenziswa uhlelo lwe-hypnosuggestive, olugcine lusebenza kahle kakhulu.
Njengamanje, kwenziwa imizamo engakaze ibonwe yokunqanda ukusetshenziswa kwendlela yokwelashwa (yokuguqula), ehlose ukuguqula isimo sobungqingili sesifiso sobulili sibe ngabobulili obuhlukile. Uyakhishwa inyumbazane futhi kumenyezelwa ukuthi akasebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi uyingozi enkulu emzimbeni womuntu. Ngakho-ke, ngoDisemba 7, 2016 iphalamende laseMalta ngazwilinye baphasisa umthetho owenqabela ukusetshenziswa kwelashwa lokulungisa. Ukuze "kuguqulwe, kucindezelwe futhi kuqedwe inkanuko yomuntu yezocansi noma ubunikazi bobulili," lo mthetho uhlinzekela inhlawulo noma isigwebo sasejele. [7] IBundesrat (emele izifundazwe zaseJalimane) ngoJuni 5, 2020 yavuma umthetho ovimbela lokhu kwelashwa. Deutsche Welle ibika ukuthi ukuziphatha kwayo kungajeziswa ngokuboshwa isikhathi esingangonyaka, nokukhangisa nokulamula - inhlawulo efinyelela kuma-euro ayizinkulungwane ezingama-30 [1]. E-US, izifundazwe eziyi-18 kuphela, iPuerto Rico neWashington DC, ezivimbele ukwelashwa kokuguqula izingane. Abantu abadala bangazinikela ekwelashweni kwezinguquko ezweni lonke [9]... I-Instagram neFacebook zimemezele ukuvinjelwa kwakho konke okuthunyelwe kulezi zinkundla zokuxhumana ezikhuthaza ukwelashwa kokuguqula [8].
Izimangalo zokuthi ukwelashwa kokuguqula akusebenzi nje kuphela, kepha kuzo zonke izimo zibangela ukulimala okukhulu emzimbeni zingamanga. Ukuphikisana okuhambisanayo kungatholakala kuzindatshana zethu [3; 4; 6]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imisebenzi yethu eminingi iveze ukusetshenziswa ngempumelelo kokwelashwa kokuguqulwa [I-2; I-5].
Nali icala elivela enkambisweni yethu yomtholampilo, lapho ukwelashwa kokuguqula kuphumelele kakhulu ekulungiseni inkombandlela yesifiso sobulili kumuntu othanda abesilisa nabesifazane.
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Ngingakwazi ukushintsha indlela yami yokuya ocansini?
Iningi lokuqukethwe ngezansi lishicilelwa embikweni wokuhlaziya. "I-rhetoric of theungqedi lobungqingili ngenxa yamaqiniso esayensi". doi:10.12731/978-5-907208-04-9, ISBN 978-5-907208-04-9
Ukutholwa Okusemqoka
(1) Kunesisekelo esikhulu sobufakazi obukhombisa ukuthi ungumuntu onobungqingili noma onqabile.
(2) Isimo esibalulekile sokusebenza kahle kokwelashwa okuphindayo ukubamba iqhaza kwesiguli nolwazi nesifiso sokushintsha.
(3) Ezimweni eziningi, ukukhanga kobungqingili, okungenzeka ngesikhathi sokuthomba, kunyamalala ngaphandle komkhondo lapho umuntu esekhulile.
UJan Goland ekwelashweni kongqingili (inhlolokhono yevidiyo ekhethekile)
Isibikezelo
Ngasekuqaleni kwe-1990, izishoshovu ezalungqingili e-US zazama ukwazisa ongqingili njengeqembu "elivikelwe" elikhethekile eNkantolo Ephakeme. Ukuze iqembu elithile labantu lithole isimo esivikelekile, kufanele kube okwangempela, okungelona iqiniso futhi kuhlale njalo (okungewona umphakathi wezitabane). Kulokhu, izishoshovu zezitabane zethule izinganekwane ezahlukahlukene ezazithathwa kalula futhi zisatshalaliswa ngabezindaba zenkululeko. Ngokuphikisana namaqiniso esayensi kanye nomqondo ojwayelekile, bekuthiwa okungenani umuntu oyedwa kwabayishumi ubungqingili, nokuthi ukuheha ebulilini bomuntu kuwuphawu lokuzalwa, njengomjaho, okubangelwa uhlobo olukhethekile futhi olungaguquki njengombala wesikhumba. Emzameni wokuzilinganisa ngokwabantu abambalwa abacindezelwe ngokobuhlanga, izishoshovu zaze zaqamba namazwi anjengokuthi "amancane" kanye "nabantu abayizitabane".
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Ukwelashwa kobungqingili ngaphambi kwenkathi yokulungiswa kwezombusazwe
Amacala amaningi okuphumelela kokulungiswa okwelashwa kokuziphatha kobungqingili nokuheha kuchazwa ngokuningiliziwe ezincwadini zobungcweti. Bika I-National Association for the Study and Therapy ofungqingili iveza ukubukelwa kobufakazi obuqandayo, imibiko yomtholampilo kanye nocwaningo kusukela ngasekupheleni kwekhulu le-19 kuze kube manje, okufakazela ngokuqiniseka ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane abanentshisekelo bangalwenza lolu shintsho kusuka ebungqingili kuya kobungqingili. Ngaphambi kwenkathi yokunemba kwezombusazwe, kwakuyiqiniso elaziwayo lesayensi, okuyinto ngokukhululeka Ubhale umshini omkhulu wezindaba. Ngisho ne-American Psychiatric Association, ngaphandle kobungqingili be-syntonic kuhlu lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo e-1974, kuphawuliwe, lokho "Izindlela zokwelapha zesimanje zivumela ingxenye enkulu yabongqingili abafuna ukuguqula isimo sabo ukwenza kanjalo".
Okulandelayo ukuhumusha izindatshana kusuka eNew York Times ye1971.
Ukwelashwa kobungqingili
Udokotela ovelele wezifo zengqondo, i-psychoanalyst kanye ne-MD, u-Edmund Bergler wabhala izincwadi ze-25 ezikhuluma nge-psychology kanye ne-273 kumajenali aphambili ochwepheshe. Izincwadi zakhe zidingida izihloko ezinjengokukhula kwengane, i-neurosis, izingqinamba zokuphila kwasebusuku, ubunzima bomshado, ukugembula, ukuzilimaza kanye nobungqingili. UBerggler wayeqashelwa kufanele njengesazi sesikhathi sakhe maqondana nobungqingili. Okulandelayo izingcaphuno ezivela emsebenzini wakhe.
Izincwadi zakamuva nemikhiqizo yakamuva izamile ukuveza ubungqingili njengezisulu ezingeneme ezifanelwe ukuzwelwa. Ukudluliswa kwezinduna ze-lacrimal akunangqondo: ongqingili bangahlala baphendukela osizweni lwezengqondo futhi belaphe uma bafuna. Kepha ukungazi komphakathi kusabalale kakhulu ngalolu daba, futhi ukukhohliswa kwabantu abathandana nabobungqingili ngombono womphakathi ngabo kusebenza kakhulu kangangokuba nabantu abahlakaniphe impela abazalwanga izolo bazitholela izithiyo zabo.
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakamuva kwengqondo nokucwaninga kufakazele ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuthi isiphetho okuthiwa singeke siguqulwe sokobungqingili (kwesinye isikhathi size sibangelwe yizimo ezingezona nezegciwane kanye nama-hormonal) empeleni siyisigaba esishintshiwe sokwelashwa kwe-neurosis. I-pessimism yokwelapha yesikhathi esedlule inyamalala kancane kancane: namuhla i-psychotherapyic isiqondisi se-psychodynamic ingalapha ubungqingili.
Ngokwelapha, ngiqonde:
I-1. ukungabi nandaba ngokuphelele nobulili babo;
I-2. injabulo ejwayelekile yezocansi;
I-3. ushintsho lwesimilo.