Category Archive: Treatment

Reintegration Therapy - Change Is Possible

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Since the sexual revolution, attitudes towards homosexuality have changed dramatically. Today, for homosexuals in the West, the battle seems won: gay clubs, gay parades, same-sex marriages. Now, “gay is okay.” Those who oppose LGBT*, along with labels of fanatics and homophobes, face administrative penalties and unprecedented lawsuits.

Tolerance and widespread acceptance of sexual freedom apply to all but one segment of the population — those who want to break with homosexuality and start a heterosexual lifestyle. These men and women experience homosexual feelings but do not want to accept a homosexual identity. They believe that homosexuality does not represent their real nature and seek deliverance.

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Garnik Kocharyan on reparative therapy for homosexuals

LGBT* help

Kocharyan Garnik Surenovich, Doctor of Medical Sciences, Professor of the Department of Sexology, Medical Psychology, Medical and Psychological Rehabilitation of the Kharkov Medical Academy. presented the book “Shame and Loss of Attachment. Application of reparative therapy in practice ”. The author is one of the most respected and world-renowned specialists in the field of reparative therapy, the founder of the National Association for the Study and Treatment of Homosexuality (NARTH) - Dr. Joseph Nicolosi. This book was first published in the USA in 2009 under the title Shame and Attachment Loss: The Practical Work of Reparative Therapy.

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The battle for normality - Gerard Aardweg

A guide to homosexuality self-therapy based on thirty years of therapeutic experience of an author who has worked with more than 300 homosexual clients.

I dedicate this book to women and men who are tormented by homosexual feelings, but do not want to live like gays and need constructive help and support.

Those who are forgotten, whose voice is hushed up, and who cannot find answers in our society, which recognizes the right to self-affirmation only for open gays.

Those who are discriminated against if they think or feel that the ideology of innate and immutable homosexuality is a sad lie, and this is not for them.

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Reorientation therapy: questions and answers

Are all homosexuals gay?

“Gay” is the identity that a person chooses for yourself. Not all homosexual people identify as “gay.” People who do not identify as gay believe that they are essentially heterosexual and seek help in identifying the specific reasons why they experience an undesirable same-sex attraction. During therapy, counselors and psychologists use ethical methods to help clients establish the reasons for their same-sex attraction and sensitively help them resolve the underlying factors leading to homosexual feelings. These people, who are an integral part of our society, strive to protect their right to receive help and support to get rid of unwanted same-sex attraction, change their sexual orientation and / or preserve celibacy. This is achieved through gender mainstreaming programs, including counseling and heterosexuality treatment, also known as “Sexual Orientation Intervention” (SOCE) or Reorientation Therapy.

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Diary of a former homosexual

Dear reader, my name is Jake. I'm an ex-gay in my twenties from England. This diary is for those who oppose the idea of ​​changing sexual orientation. Experts have studied sexuality for decades and have concluded that sexuality is variable in many people. Evidence suggests that sexual feelings can change throughout life. The fact that many people change their sexual orientation is a statistically proven fact. I am one of these people.

I no longer feel sexually attracted to men; girls are now much more attractive to me. Once I didn’t think so, but now I think.

Once, falling asleep on lonely nights, I imagined myself in the arms of another man, now I can only imagine myself with a feminine girl.

Some are not happy with this state of affairs. They are so unsure of their sexuality that they cannot accept that there are those who no longer share their feelings. They are more than happy when people turn into homosexuals, but they don’t like when the opposite happens. Sometimes people like me are called hate-raisers, and that’s just because I don’t want to have sex with men anymore! 

Would they prefer me to keep quiet about changing my sexuality, live in lies and deny what happened? Yes, it seems! They want to silence me, to deprive me of the right to live the way I choose, and to force me to lead the lifestyle that they consider necessary! 

I not only ceased to be gay, but I also feel happier. I myself will manage my life the way I want, and not the way they tell me. I decided to change my sexuality and I did it.

Quoting gay activists:
I'm here!
I'm not queer anymore!
Get used to it!

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Full story in English: https://www.equalityandjusticeforall.org/diary-of-an-ex-gay-man

How is homosexual attraction formed?

Dr. Julie Hamilton 6 years taught psychology at the University of Palm Beach, served as president of the Association for marriage and family therapy, as well as president in the National Association for the Study and Therapy of Homosexuality. Currently, she is a certified specialist in family and marriage issues in private practice. In his lecture “Homosexuality: An Introductory Course” (Homosexuality 101), Dr. Hamilton talks about myths that cover the topic of homosexuality in our culture and about what is actually known from scientific research. It highlights the most typical factors contributing to the development of same-sex attraction in boys and girls, and talks about the possibility of changing the undesirable sexual orientation. 

• Is homosexuality congenital or is it a choice? 
• What leads a person to be attracted to his own sex? 
• How does female homosexuality develop? 
• Is reorientation possible? 

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